Month 3: Things start to make sense. Listening to music helps.
Month 3 and I feel like I am starting to settle in and that things are slowly starting to make sense. I still have moments of panic here and there, or feel a bit overwhelmed. But I am making progress. I know people better now, I know my commute, I know more about the tasks at work etc etc. Everything just takes time and I can be impatient. As I mentioned in my last post, I’ve been listening to more music lately as I drive longer to work and back. This led me to thinking…
What’s your favourite song?
I bet you have one. Or maybe you have many. I’ve just started writing a list of my favourite songs. Music is a powerful thing. Just look at how much money and influence pop stars or musicians have generally. Music has a big impact on us and touches many points in our lives. People win Oscars for movie scores. What an amazing job! Shonda Rhimes uses music to great effect in her TV shows. The latest episode of Scandal (potential spoiler alert so don’t click if you haven’t seen it!) had two characters singing Britney Spears’ ‘Hit Me Baby One More Time’ and it was probably my favourite Scandal moment. I’m going to be very sad once Scandal finishes because it’s thoroughly enjoyable.
Musicals and Concerts
Andrew Lloyd Webber is celebrating his 70th birthday this year and I found an article on the BBC website about his career in seven songs. I love to see shows at the theatre and attend concerts because it makes me feel alive. Being in either venue makes you forget any cares and worries you might have to instead get lost in the moment. It’s the same with TV and film for me. Escapism really, but I suppose that is what entertainment is all about.
I recently watched Sing and loved the quote: “Don’t let fear stop you from doing the thing you love”. It resonated with me. I found another blog by Amy Rees Anderson which explains how it impacted her too.
If I go to a party I enjoy getting up on the dance floor and having a dance (although I’m not that good!).
Being a Kylie fan (see below) … ‘when I go out, I wanna go out dancing‘.
My Favourite Songs
I also like to sing in the car or shower. It’s therapeutic and definitely lifts my spirits. There are plenty of TED Talks about the impact of music too.
Following on from the BBC article, if I had to pick seven songs about my life so far they would be:
- Kylie Minogue – I Should Be So Lucky. I am an ardent Kylie fan and have been all my life. It’s been a constant (along with a love of the Royal Family).
- Snow White – Some Day My Prince Will Come. I’m also a massive Disney fan, and love Snow White.
- Frozen – Let It Go. Continuing the Disney theme, this song meant a lot to me last year especially. The Royal/Princess theme continues!
- Kelly Clarkson – Because of You. The fact that Kelly wrote this when she was 16, and has such a powerful voice (I’ve seen her live – amazing). I find it so moving. Just love it.
- Cindi Lauper – Time After Time. Again this song just moves me. It’s quiet and poignant.
- Bon Jovi – Always. A romantic at heart, again just love this song. I have been lucky and see Bon Jovi live as well.
- Carrie Underwood – Before He Cheats. Not exactly a topic that you’d want to happen to you, but love Carrie’s voice (again seen her live) and like the revenge side of this song, so that probably says a bit about me.
There are so many songs that I love, but these are my list. It’s great to be able to see artists that I like live, sometimes travelling to different countries. I like to get good seats and sometimes a little mini-break is fun too.
I asked my Mum to write out the songs she’d want at her funeral because music is so powerful and I thought I’d be in a bit of a state when that actually happened. There are lists for the top songs at funerals.
You might pick the song from the first dance at your wedding, there are plenty of lists for popular wedding songs too.
What songs have had an impact on you and why?
Enjoy today and maybe blast out some of your favourite tunes.