I’m not a kook just like Monica
I’m a keen Friends fan and if I identify with any one character it’s got to be Monica.
In one episode the others are teasing her about her lack of ‘kookiness’ as she likes to do things just so. Monica ends up laying awake in the night having left something in the lounge area to prove she is a kook. She just can’t do it. Nor can I. I think I worry that I will forget to do something – but what’s the worst that would happen in reality? No one is going to die because a bill isn’t paid (at least I hope not!).
As much as I’d like to be laidback and relaxed, it’s just not the way I’ve ever been. My brain seems to be constantly alert and I can easily overthink things. This article on the Headspace website sounds very like me.
My default setting is to have something to worry about. If it’s not a work task, then I can easily fill that space in my mind with another concern. Just this week I lay awake having been to a show that evening, unable to sleep and mind whirring with thoughts.
To try to improve myself, I’ve started to write down what I am worrying about. I will then revisit the list to see how many things were worth the time and energy. I imagine very few will be.
I like to feel efficient and can easily get overwhelmed if I feel I’ve got too much on my plate, often coupled with perceived lack of time to achieve it. I could see myself behaving like Monica in this episode where she is busy cleaning because she knows her mum will pick on her.
Christmas Present list
Being a keen Friends fan I got excited yesterday when I saw a whole range of new Friends games out for Christmas and promptly added them to my Wish List. Primark recently had a whole Central Perk range including a photo frame of the famous frame on Monica’s door. I was also very happy to discover the Central Perk cafe in Singapore at the end of my trip last year. There is something magical about Friends.
With efficiency in mind, I’ve started to think about what to buy people for Christmas, even undertaking an ‘audit’ last weekend of what I’d bought so far as I like to pick things up throughout the year. This sounds very Monica-esque to me.
This led me to thinking about the current trends for subscribing to things like Spotify and Netflix, vs owning physical things. There was a recent BBC article about this. I still like to own things, but it’s also very efficient and ‘tidy’ not to have lots of things cluttering up your home. I recently purchased the Magic of Tidying book though it’s sitting on my Kindle waiting to be read. I’m currently re-reading my physical copies of Harry Potter (which I also own on Kindle). There’s something to be said about holding a proper book, but there are also merits to the ebook.
I think my cupboards will always be a bit messy and at least I can be happy in the knowledge that even Monica succumbed to this problem too. Or you know, I could worry about it.